This past week, dealing with my side hustle has been one where I marked a milestone and one of dealing with my account almost getting nuked.
After nearly 4 years, I finally hit 2,000 FANS. That’s pretty cool!
But then this happened to take the wind out of my sails …
I usually don’t mess with my OF account on the weekends. But last Sunday, I was on late in the day and found that my account had been totally locked down. I had the dreaded red alerts from OnlyFans detailing 9 messages (which they consider to be “content,” just like posts) that had been deleted because they were flagged by their system as me trying to set up In-Real-Life (IRL) meetings with fans. This is a big violation of the Terms of Service and something I have never tried to do. But there have been plenty of messages of the “if I was there with you” or “if I am ever in [insert fan’s city here]” variety. Again, it’s all roleplay and fantasy and a hope of getting tips for engaging with said fans.
I will freely admit that I have been guilty of trying to send my Snapchat or WhatsApp handles to fans. That’s a no-no too. There are fans that want to video chat, which is a feature that OnlyFans doesn’t offer. The intent was always to send the fans back to OnlyFans to get tips through their system. So, I don’t mind getting dinged for those messages. The messages that are just casual chats getting flagged is super frustrating, though. A fan sent me a picture of the beach he lives on, and they flagged my “That is pretty!” response. What the hell?!
I appealed the decision on several of these messages, explaining that the “flagged” language was roleplay/casual conversation and not me trying to set up any IRL’s. This was the response.
It’s INCREDIBLY FRUSTRATING that there apparently isn’t any room on the backend to look at the intent/nuance of the messages. It seems like the offending phrases are flagged, your account is dinged, and there is nothing you can do about it. As you can see, I now have the threat of my account being deactivated hanging over my head.
The account is back up and running now. But I am now totally gun-shy about dealing with fan messages. Maybe I should just announce that I will only respond to messages that are requesting custom videos or photos.
Is the OF journey nearly over? Time will tell!























