So, on your birthday you get a message on the answering machine from that “certain someone” that you really care about (for some insane reason) and then a few days later you get an e-mail from him. And in that e-mail he writes “Plus, Michelle reminded me, or I would have forgotten the day and then called later and sounded like an ass.” Is there any good way to look at this or is it still the “slap in the face” that it feels like. Argh. I should just drop it and consider him “dead and gone.” He was all along. Wasn’t he?