{"id":12679,"date":"2026-11-12T16:01:52","date_gmt":"2026-11-12T21:01:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.theboywonder.net\/?p=12679"},"modified":"2026-11-12T16:28:41","modified_gmt":"2026-11-12T21:28:41","slug":"the-of-blues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theboywonder.net\/?p=12679","title":{"rendered":"The OF Blues"},"content":{"rendered":"

This past week, dealing with my side hustle has been one where I marked a milestone and one of dealing with my account almost getting nuked.<\/p>\n

After nearly 4 years, I finally hit 2,000 FANS<\/strong>. That’s pretty cool!<\/p>\n

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But then this happened to take the wind out of my sails …<\/p>\n

I usually don’t mess with my OF account on the weekends. But last Sunday, I was on late in the day and found that my account had been totally locked down. I had the dreaded red alerts from OnlyFans detailing 9 messages (which they consider to be “content,” just like posts) that had been deleted because they were flagged by their system as me trying to set up In-Real-Life (IRL) meetings with fans. This is a big violation of the Terms of Service and something I have never tried to do. But there have been plenty of messages of the “if I was there with you” or “if I am ever in [insert fan’s city here]” variety. Again, it’s all roleplay and fantasy and a hope of getting tips for engaging with said fans.<\/p>\n

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I will freely admit that I have been guilty of trying to send my Snapchat or WhatsApp handles to fans. That’s a no-no too. There are fans that want to video chat, which is a feature that OnlyFans doesn’t offer. The intent was always to send the fans back to OnlyFans to get tips through their system. So, I don’t mind getting dinged for those messages. The messages that are just casual chats getting flagged is super frustrating, though. A fan sent me a picture of the beach he lives on, and they flagged my “That is pretty!” response. What the hell?!<\/p>\n

I appealed the decision on several of these messages, explaining that the “flagged” language was roleplay\/casual conversation and not me trying to set up any IRL’s.\u00a0 This was the response.<\/p>\n

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It’s INCREDIBLY FRUSTRATING that there apparently isn’t any room on the backend to look at the intent\/nuance of the messages. It seems like the offending phrases are flagged, your account is dinged, and there is nothing you can do about it. As you can see, I now have the threat of my account being deactivated hanging over my head.<\/p>\n

The account is back up and running now. But I am now totally gun-shy about dealing with fan messages. Maybe I should just announce that I will only respond to messages that are requesting custom videos or photos.<\/p>\n

Is the OF journey nearly over? Time will tell!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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